I changed my "about me" section today to remove all references of being divorced. Why would I want to define myself as someone from a gay divorce? Move on. Now my bio simply reads "a gay man enjoying and discovering..." and not "a gay divorcee". Who gives a shit!
To me it's more than just a removal of word. It's about letting go and moving on. Perhaps this was the one final vestige of a former life. I haven't mentioned my previous life in a long time for one simple reason: there's no need to.
On BanditTalks you will no longer find reference to the past. Going forward it's about now.
To all of you have a great day!
P.S. Good God, how did it get to be February already?